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Vanity or Vitality? The Real Truth About How You Look in Midlife
Plus: 38 Seconds that will rewire how you think about food & The 30-minute rule: the new science behind napping
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Hi, I’m Jason. If you are a midlife man in a leadership role, I’ve created The Prime Movement for you. It’s a community for those of us who believe in the power of progress - in leadership and in life. Dare to know. Dare to grow.
WHAT’S COMING UP:
Prime Performance: This Week’s Best News, Views & Life-Hacks
The Prime Perspective: Vanity or Vitality? The Real Truth About How You Look in Midlife
Lessons from the Trenches: Real Life Leadership Challenges
Be a Prime Mover: 1 Quote to Spark Change
PRIME PERFORMANCE: THIS WEEK’S BEST NEWS, VIEWS & LIFE-HACKS
🚀 START Something now!I saw this over the weekend and it struck a chord with me for 2 reasons:
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We all tend to think of food in a very functional, basic way, primarily in relation to things like weight loss. But this clip featuring Dr Mark Hyman, the functional medicine advocate and author, is an eye-opener. As he says himself: “The molecules in food act like medicine, influencing how we feel and function. Yet, many don’t realize the powerful connection between what they eat and conditions like asthma, migraines, anxiety, depression, or even their mood and energy levels.”
The bottom line is that if you want to optimize your mental clarity, emotional stability, and sustained energy levels in midlife then you need to pay close attention to what you’re putting in your body.
A groundbreaking study analyzing data from nearly 2 million people, including over a million midlife men, has delivered crucial insights about napping that could reshape your daily routine. The research reveals a clear dividing line: while naps under 30 minutes can boost cognitive function and muscle health, longer naps are linked to increased cardiovascular risks and higher mortality rates. So, set an alarm, stick to the limit, and you'll get the benefits of improved brain function without the health risks. It's a small change that could make a significant difference to your long-term wellbeing.
THE PRIME PERSPECTIVE: PERSONAL REFLECTIONS ON LEADERSHIP AND GROWTH

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Vanity or Vitality? The Real Truth About How You Look in Midlife
"To be a leader, you must look the part. Not for others, but because how you present yourself shapes how you show up." - Jack Welch's insight hits differently in midlife, doesn't it?
If you're like many midlife men I work with, you might be avoiding that mirror. Maybe you've bought into the notion that caring about your appearance at “our age" is somehow superficial or vain. That focusing on looks is beneath a serious executive or leader.
Let me challenge that belief head-on: nothing could be further from the truth.
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LESSONS FROM THE TRENCHES: REAL LIFE LEADERSHIP CHALLENGES
Every week, I'll share real challenges from TPM community members and coaching experiences, offering practical solutions you can apply to your own journey.
Paralyzed at the Peak: When Personal Struggles Shake Professional Confidence
CHALLENGE
I'm a 45-year-old Managing Director of a real estate, recently divorced with two kids. While the split was amicable, I'm realizing how much I've let slide. My friendships have gradually drifted away - not by choice, but I just found it harder and harder to make time. Looking in the mirror, I barely recognize myself. I've put on weight, stopped working out, and my energy levels are shot.
I’m also getting increasingly worried that what’s happening in my personal life is affecting my professional confidence. I keep on kicking the can down the road, but I know that’s not sustainable. I just feel like i’m in a state of paralysis.
MY TAKE
First, let me acknowledge something powerful - the courage it takes to admit you need support. As the famous author Ryan Holiday reminds us, asking for help isn't weakness; it's a sign of strength. It shows you're refusing to accept defeat, refusing to let circumstances define your future.
BE A PRIME MOVER: 1 QUOTE TO SPARK CHANGE
“The clothes you wear are a direct reflection of the respect you show yourself and others.”
MY TAKE
Tom Ford's insight cuts sharper than one of his suits.
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